Let's Talk About - Depression, Anxiety and Transitions & Losses
Trauma
Abuse issue —“I know our improvement…is
only possible because of your interventions…By helping
us to explore the reasons behind certain behaviors, you have
taught us lessons that will enable us to never be victims again.
If not for your excellent advice, strategies and insights, my
family would be dysfunctional.” Mother of a sexually
molested 5 year old
Depression is more than a feeling of sadness
that does not go away. Although it is considered ‘the common
cold’ of emotional disorders, depression does not always
get better by a few days of rest and attention. Like the common
cold, depression can develop into something more serious. When
depression affects your mood, behavior, thinking and health, you
need professional care.
Symptoms:
•
Sadness, anxiety, guilt or
feelings of emptiness much of the time
•
Don’t care about things like you
used to, like people, eating, or activities
•
Feel tired and lethargic, poor sleep
or too much sleeping
•
Changes in appetite and weight
•
Wish to be left alone, withdrawing from
others
•
Memory and concentration lapses, have
trouble completing work
•
Feel as though no one cares or could understand
all your problems
•
Cannot make decisions, even small ones
•
Complains of aches and digestion problems
without physical origins
•
Feel worthless, helpless, pessimistic
and hopeless
•
Thinking that your life will never change,
and thinking that maybe you’ll end it.
You live in a very uncertain world, and hurry
and worry constantly press in on you. Usually rest and reassurance
are sufficient to relieve one’s tension and the return to
a state of ‘relative peace’. If, however, you experience
an ongoing sense of overwhelming and unrelenting physical and
emotional discomfort-- referred to as ‘being on the brink’,
‘having a nervous breakdown’ or ‘losing it’,
counseling can help.
Symptoms:
•
Feel excessive anxiety, pressure
or worry
•
Overreact to everyday events as though
they are catastrophes
•
Have difficulty concentrating, or mind
goes blank
•
Are easily irritated, cannot tolerate
frustration
•
Cannot calm yourself
•
Difficult or impossible to stop worrying
•
Feel keyed up, on edge and tense
•
Trouble falling or staying asleep, and
don’t feel rested after sleeping
‘Bad things happen to good people’
is a phrase sometimes used to explain why difficulties are ‘allowed
to happen’. But when you suffer a significant, unexpected
or uncontrollable event, your emotional resources, support system
and underlying beliefs can be so stressed that you can’t
cope. If you are experiencing excessive distress following a loss,
or are concerned that you are not functioning adequately, counseling
can help.
Adjustment and Change.Symptoms follow or are in response to an identifiable
stress, change or loss. You may feel:
•
Depressed, tearful, hopeless,
or devastated
•
Anxious, worried, unsettled emotionally
and physically
•
Behaving in dangerous, risky or inappropriate
ways
•
Impulsive
Bereavement or Grief,
is a normal reaction to loss. Symptoms of
grieving, are dependent on such factors as culture, beliefs, life
stage and relationship to the departed. It is not the passage
of time that heals,
but the passage through the experience of healing and you may
find processing your feelings and thoughts through counseling
helpful.
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
Persons exposed to events that involved serious injury, threatened
or actual death or catastrophe may experience PTSD. The symptoms
are seriously disabling, often co-occurring with anxiety, depression,
behavior problems and/ or substance abuse. Counseling can help
you work through your trauma, reduce symptoms and recreate a sense
of the meaning of life.
Symptoms include:
•
Feeling like you are re-experiencing
the trauma
•
Flashbacks, hallucinations, or dissociative
experiences
•
Inability to recall or avoiding important
parts of the traumatic experience
•
Sleep disturbances and vivid, terrifying
dreams
•
Radical changes in behavior and self-esteem
•
Unable to feel emotions or over-emotional
•
Sense of having no future and loss of
goals, interests and relationships
•
Difficulty concentrating, feel like you
wake up and have been out of
contact with reality